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Yesterday, I cried my face off when my partner was leaving to go back to work. I cried the first time (with our first born) too. I just… didn’t want to move into the next chapter. Somehow, him leaving, represented all of us moving into a different phase, and I didn’t feel ready. Nope, not ready. Not one bit.

I mourn for all the women in my position, and in worse positions, who have to say goodbye to their partners or their support person too soon. I mourn for the single mamas. And for the mothers with unsupportive partners. And for the women who’ve just undergone major abdominal surgery. And for the women with other birth injuries.

The understanding that postpartum care + support is a basic human right, is not ‘normal’ here in the states. Women are generally expected to get right back to it — the demands of the house, older children, and even ‘work’ loom over them as they navigate the biggest psychological, emotional, and physical transition of their lives.

AND most of the time (because birth in the states and other industrialized nations has been hijacked by a system that doesn’t actually understand a woman’s body or her needs) she’s HEALING from trauma/injury that could have been avoided.

I feel tremendously blessed, and STILL, I cried my face off on Day 9. I was able to set myself up for a much more successful postpartum time than last time, because I KNEW what was ahead. Some of the things that helped:

  • Stacking recurring payments for pre-developed products + services (building my recurring revenue as an entrepreneur has allowed a TON of creative freedom).

  • Working ahead as much as I could (by recording content in advance)

  • Setting clear boundaries around client work (I had a clear stop date for 1:1 client work but knew I would continue to write during late pregnancy and into postpartum because writing and creating is like breathing for me).

  • Hiring a postpartum doula (Deby! — pictured above) to help take care of me so that there was less on my partner’s shoulders and so I felt support in a number of key ways.

  • Meal prep (I pre-made a good amount of bone broth and stocked the pantry with the foods I wanted. In retrospect I give myself 5/10 stars in this department because I definitely could have premade easy-to-heat meals and put them in the freezer etc).

  • Intuitively lining up care for my oldest

  • Reading The First Forty Days by Heng Ou and The Fourth Trimester by Kimberly Ann Johnson

But this post isn’t really about what I did to prepare. It’s about who I have become, and how that woman is able to RECEIVE on an entirely new level than the woman I was when my first child was born.

Receiving the level of support I set up for myself would NOT have been possible, if I wasn’t empowered around my DESIRES, if I wasn’t CLEAR about my needs/wants, and if I was unable to CLEARLY EXPRESS those needs/wants to the people around me.

Receiving the level of support would NOT have been possible, if I hadn’t done the work of developing a healthy sense of ENTITLEMENT. Yes, entitlement. As in: there are things I now feeling deserving of, that I at one time, did NOT feel deserving of.

One of the qualities that defines an empowered woman, is that she’s able to express what she wants, and then receive/get what she wants, without all the shadow-y stuff. What’s the shadow-y stuff?

It’s the murky energy of ‘I’m not satisfied and I’m NOT getting what I want’ but I’m not even 1) admitting what I want 2) expressing what I want — so I will NOT be able to receive what I want.

Making sense? This is how we open up the work inside my signature group program, Permission to Prosper, Where Sacred Sexuality meets Money Magnetism. We begin with the session, “OWN YOUR DESIRES AND BIG MONEY GOALS” because like I said, if you can’t own that you want something, and then express it powerfully first to yourself, you will NOT be in alignment to RECEIVE it.

Big Love,

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P.S. Are you ready to RECEIVE on a deeper level?

Are you ready to understand where your self-worth is impacting your ability to RECEIVE and HAVE all the good things life is constantly attempting to offer you? Are you ready to STOP REPELLING and START MAGNETIZING the money, the opportunities — all of it?

FOR A LIMITED TIME YOU CAN GET ACCESS TO MY SIGNATURE DIGITAL COACHING PROGRAM PERMISSION TO PROSPER: Where Sacred Sexuality Meets Money Magnetism FOR ITS BEST AVAILABLE PRICE!

AND — I’ve just added a never before offered extended payment plan to make it easier than ever to get access to this life-changing body of work. Did you know that Permission to Prosper comes with your very own certified Nephrite Jade Egg for sexual energy cultivation. Yep. AND that the first 3 women to sign up will receive a black obsidian yoni egg for FREE as an early sign up bonus!?

Before you click through to read about this program that’s positively impacted women from all around the world (including the UK, Australia, Brazil, New Zealand, Germany, India, Canada, and more!) I need to share a disclaimer with you: THIS PROGRAM IS AN INVITATION INTO THE HEART OF YOUR FEMININE POWER, AKA YOUR SEXUAL ENERGY.

Feeling the call? The soul nudge? The soul knowing? Check out the curriculum below, and join us inside!

The Permission to Prosper

Program Curriculum:

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GET ALL THE DETAILS, INCLUDING TESTIMONIALS, AND PAYMENT PLAN OPTIONS HERE:

http://www.jillian-anderson.com/lto-permission-to-prosper-the-6-week-group-program

Permission to Prosper is regularly listed at $697, but when you join us before Wednesday the 29th at midnight EST you can get in for just $497, and get started for as little as $99 today!

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“PERMISSION TO PROSPER LITERALLY PAID FOR ITSELF WITHIN THE FIRST TWO WEEKS OF STARTING THE COURSE!”

“During Permission to Prosper I developed the confidence to charge prices for my services that are more in alignment with what I want, and it helped me launch a new type of juice cleansing program that I had been thinking about (but was afraid to promote because I was nervous that people would find it expensive). Not only have I introduced the program to my community, I have already raised the price!

In all honesty, Permission to Prosper literally paid for itself within the first two weeks of starting the course!  The value I received from the course is priceless... ALL of the components in the program have been such valuable keys to my healing process and the confidence I now feel.”

— Liz Forrest


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The Pleasure of Now: 3 Ways to Be More Sensually Embodied

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"Sensual Enlightenment" (2016) by Cat De Pillar 
 

"The feminine mystery lives in the Now. Its energies are concentrated on what is happening in the moment -- a forget-me-not sparkling with dew, the scent of wet pine, a hesitant hand -- all uniquely coming together Now. It relaxes into total concentration and is. The feminine does not save itself for some glorious moment in the future, nor grieve over some lost moment in the past. It holds nothing back. Now is all there ever is." -- Marion Woodman

I've needed this medicine my entire life.

My self-worth used to depend on the results I created, or the things I did. It took me years to realize that producing results all month long is not the natural rhythm of earth or woman.  

Most of us are burdened by an excess of doing, and in turn, are lacking the pleasure of being. In a rush to produce results, attain an outcome, and accomplish the next big thing on the list, we miss out on what's before us, here and now.

We've been denying ourselves the sweet nectar of Now. Whether our Now, is dark or light, we must enter it fully, or put life on hold until death.

The dictionary won't tell you the real definition of sensuality. It won't tell you that to enter life through the senses, to be attuned to what is, is your passport to heavenly bliss. 

We must stand unabashedly in our wildness -- in our sensuality, our cyclical nature, our intuition, compassion, and desire for inclusion. We must be still, and be here Now.

To live radically is essential. As western women, I'm convinced that we have no other choice. 

To say yes to Now, we must say no to over-doing and to validating ourselves through external accomplishments. We must say no when we need rest. We must say no to hiding behind the masks other's expect us to wear and chasing someone else's version of fulfillment. 

We must weave this new web, on our own terms. We must seek alignment over attainment. We must move swiftly to reclaim our bodies as sacred ground.

Sensuality has been shunned by the judeo-christian influence for thousands of years, perpetuating an inaccurate understanding of it's true essence as immoral. 

The west is heavily indoctrinated by teachings that perpetuate myths: sex is sinful, your body is less-than-holy and cursed, your blood is dirty, and desire is responsible for humanity's fall from grace. 

But we know better. We know our sensuality is not a curse. We know it's a blessing, a gateway to bliss and union. We know how to self-celebrate and shine so bright that other women (and men) will catch a glimpse of us and remember themselves, too.

We are testing the waters with our feminine power. We are doing the work. We are meeting our new growth edge, receding like the tide, and then meeting it again with the willingness to shed what no longer serves us. 

The old stories that have burrowed home in our psyche, must be eradicated if we are to reclaim our sexuality as ours to cultivate for life.

Let's be the sensual women that we are without fear of repercussion. Let's silence the voices that say we're drawing too much attention to ourselves, that we're taking up too much space, that we'll be abandoned for our radiance. 

Let's live how we would live anyway. Let's let our sweet desire guide us, to carry this planet forward in sustainability. 

Here Are 3 Easy Ways to Be More Sensually Embodied:

1. Take Your Shoes Off (or Your Clothes)

Feel the Earth beneath your body. Tap into her rhythmic pulse. Know that you are One with Her. Let her heal you, let her hold you, let her absorb anything that no longer serves you. 

2. Awaken Shakti through the Taoist Jade Egg Practice

Pleasure is potent medicine. Your ability to feel pleasure is your ability to receive life. Starting a jade egg practice often brings us face to face with our self-imposed limitations and the ways in which we have been blocking our own pleasure, abundance, love, and ultimately our highest good. 

3. Take a Dance Class (or Dance it Out at Home)

The medicine here is to shake it out, to move your body, and to enter this sacred moment. Don't worry about what you look like, just play an inspiring song, and let go. This never fails to help me when I'm lost in worry or unconsciously rushing. 

A little extra: This woman always inspire me to dance...

Halo Seronko of Shakti Temple Arts || @shaktitemplearts

I'd Love to hear from you: What most often keeps you from being present now? What were you taught about your sexuality or sensuality as a child (directly or indirectly)? What is your favorite way to drop back into the pleasure of your body in this moment? 

Love + Love,

Jillian Xx
 

Learn How to Cultivate Your Sacred Sexual Energy through the Taoist Jade Egg Practice. Get Your Free E-Book: How to Start a Jade Practice Here.


WANT MORE?

Go From Overwhelmed to On-Point with Your Purpose Work with the Deeply Supported Mother Workbook

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If you want to:

  • identify what needs to come off your plate NOW

  • map (and start to magnetize) your ideal support system with one of my favorite exercises (SO YOU CAN SHIFT INTO TRULY THRIVING)

  • get instant insight on doing work and motherhood on your own terms 

  • take the next-level action steps you’ve been avoiding

Then, this is for you. Download it below for instant access.