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Yesterday, I cried my face off when my partner was leaving to go back to work. I cried the first time (with our first born) too. I just… didn’t want to move into the next chapter. Somehow, him leaving, represented all of us moving into a different phase, and I didn’t feel ready. Nope, not ready. Not one bit.

I mourn for all the women in my position, and in worse positions, who have to say goodbye to their partners or their support person too soon. I mourn for the single mamas. And for the mothers with unsupportive partners. And for the women who’ve just undergone major abdominal surgery. And for the women with other birth injuries.

The understanding that postpartum care + support is a basic human right, is not ‘normal’ here in the states. Women are generally expected to get right back to it — the demands of the house, older children, and even ‘work’ loom over them as they navigate the biggest psychological, emotional, and physical transition of their lives.

AND most of the time (because birth in the states and other industrialized nations has been hijacked by a system that doesn’t actually understand a woman’s body or her needs) she’s HEALING from trauma/injury that could have been avoided.

I feel tremendously blessed, and STILL, I cried my face off on Day 9. I was able to set myself up for a much more successful postpartum time than last time, because I KNEW what was ahead. Some of the things that helped:

  • Stacking recurring payments for pre-developed products + services (building my recurring revenue as an entrepreneur has allowed a TON of creative freedom).

  • Working ahead as much as I could (by recording content in advance)

  • Setting clear boundaries around client work (I had a clear stop date for 1:1 client work but knew I would continue to write during late pregnancy and into postpartum because writing and creating is like breathing for me).

  • Hiring a postpartum doula (Deby! — pictured above) to help take care of me so that there was less on my partner’s shoulders and so I felt support in a number of key ways.

  • Meal prep (I pre-made a good amount of bone broth and stocked the pantry with the foods I wanted. In retrospect I give myself 5/10 stars in this department because I definitely could have premade easy-to-heat meals and put them in the freezer etc).

  • Intuitively lining up care for my oldest

  • Reading The First Forty Days by Heng Ou and The Fourth Trimester by Kimberly Ann Johnson

But this post isn’t really about what I did to prepare. It’s about who I have become, and how that woman is able to RECEIVE on an entirely new level than the woman I was when my first child was born.

Receiving the level of support I set up for myself would NOT have been possible, if I wasn’t empowered around my DESIRES, if I wasn’t CLEAR about my needs/wants, and if I was unable to CLEARLY EXPRESS those needs/wants to the people around me.

Receiving the level of support would NOT have been possible, if I hadn’t done the work of developing a healthy sense of ENTITLEMENT. Yes, entitlement. As in: there are things I now feeling deserving of, that I at one time, did NOT feel deserving of.

One of the qualities that defines an empowered woman, is that she’s able to express what she wants, and then receive/get what she wants, without all the shadow-y stuff. What’s the shadow-y stuff?

It’s the murky energy of ‘I’m not satisfied and I’m NOT getting what I want’ but I’m not even 1) admitting what I want 2) expressing what I want — so I will NOT be able to receive what I want.

Making sense? This is how we open up the work inside my signature group program, Permission to Prosper, Where Sacred Sexuality meets Money Magnetism. We begin with the session, “OWN YOUR DESIRES AND BIG MONEY GOALS” because like I said, if you can’t own that you want something, and then express it powerfully first to yourself, you will NOT be in alignment to RECEIVE it.

Big Love,

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P.S. Are you ready to RECEIVE on a deeper level?

Are you ready to understand where your self-worth is impacting your ability to RECEIVE and HAVE all the good things life is constantly attempting to offer you? Are you ready to STOP REPELLING and START MAGNETIZING the money, the opportunities — all of it?

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Before you click through to read about this program that’s positively impacted women from all around the world (including the UK, Australia, Brazil, New Zealand, Germany, India, Canada, and more!) I need to share a disclaimer with you: THIS PROGRAM IS AN INVITATION INTO THE HEART OF YOUR FEMININE POWER, AKA YOUR SEXUAL ENERGY.

Feeling the call? The soul nudge? The soul knowing? Check out the curriculum below, and join us inside!

The Permission to Prosper

Program Curriculum:

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GET ALL THE DETAILS, INCLUDING TESTIMONIALS, AND PAYMENT PLAN OPTIONS HERE:

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“PERMISSION TO PROSPER LITERALLY PAID FOR ITSELF WITHIN THE FIRST TWO WEEKS OF STARTING THE COURSE!”

“During Permission to Prosper I developed the confidence to charge prices for my services that are more in alignment with what I want, and it helped me launch a new type of juice cleansing program that I had been thinking about (but was afraid to promote because I was nervous that people would find it expensive). Not only have I introduced the program to my community, I have already raised the price!

In all honesty, Permission to Prosper literally paid for itself within the first two weeks of starting the course!  The value I received from the course is priceless... ALL of the components in the program have been such valuable keys to my healing process and the confidence I now feel.”

— Liz Forrest


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Money Makes Me a Better Mommy. Here's How.

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It’s all related. Money and motherhood. Stress and triggers.

How you mother, is affected by how you money. There’s no way around it. So it’s probably a good idea to heal it — with just as much determination, motivation, and drive as a person determined to heal the triggers that stem from their childhood trauma.

How are YOU doing money right now? Really, how are you feeling about money right now? Do you feel free? Or constricted?

I know mothers who’ve stayed (or are staying) in so-so and even abusive relationships because of… money. They don’t have enough income to live as a single parent right now and to support their children to their standards.

I know a mother who lives on the Jersey shore who’d much rather be living in Vermont, but she stays in Jersey, because her husband loves it, and he has... the money.

I know a woman who is not getting the midwife she actually wants because the CNM is covered by insurance but the laid back and hand’s off CPM she vibes better with, is not covered, and she doesn’t have the extra money to pay out of pocket, on top of the cost of her unpaid maternity leave.

I myself have made hundreds of decisions based on what I felt was available to me, and what was not, and like every woman in that place, I’ve wondered: how do I blow the lid off of this thing and CREATE + HAVE an unlimited way of living?

I’ll be the first to say (if it hasn’t already been said) that money makes me a better mommy.

Money and the incoming flow of more than enough money allows me to be more present, and grounded with my child (soon to be children). From that place, I think creatively. There exists expansion and possibility. It allows me to serve better, and to make better choices.

But when income dips or expenses increase, or both at the same time (we could talk about the energetics of this in another post) mommy might be pulled under by feelings of stress, worry, or fear...

And that’s when the triggers are easily triggered. That’s when the cortisol is high and the energy is frantic and she burns the toast and drops the avocado. That’s when her trigger buttons are bigger, and her focus is scattered.

Let’s dial this in even more because it’s not just the money that makes you a better mommy, it’s your relationship with the money that makes you a better mommy.

Because there are people who’re triggered at EVERY LEVEL.

There are people who start to worry when their account drops below 10k, just as there are people who start to worry when their account drops below 100k, just as there are people who start to fear when their account goes below $50 or into overdraft, and everything in between and beyond.

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So is it more accurate to say that HAVING MORE THAN ENOUGH makes you a better mommy?

Yes. It’s that energy — that abundant, expansive energy — that changes everything.

And how do you get there and sustain that energy? How do you live from a place of freedom and expansion and trust? How do you create MORE THAN ENOUGH? More than enough FOR YOUR SOUL TO DECIDE?

You do the WORK — the self-worth work. 

You do the WORK — the mind-set work. 

You release blame, and shame, and not-enoughness. 

You take the next inspired step. 
You get clear. 

You ALLOW more, into YOUR BODY and life. 

You see HER (your future self) and you lean into HER, everyday. 

You forgive people and release people. 

You surround yourself with people who GET IT and SEE YOU. 

You show up and CREATE what you feel called to create — not because it’s logical, but because it fuels you and lights you up and guides you forward. 

You make daily decisions that feel hard/scary/uncomfortable. 

You CLAIM it for yourself. 

And you don't stop.

Big Love,
Jillian Xx

P.S. If you're curious about the connection between allowing MORE pleasure into your body, and allowing MORE money into your life — my free instant video training 'How to Create More Money Through the Science of Your Orgasmic Nature' is helping women everyday make NEW connections and shifts in the way they RECEIVE.

Watch it instantly, for free, here: https://www.jillian-anderson.com/freevideotraining

Xx


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Go From Overwhelmed to On-Point with Your Purpose Work with the Deeply Supported Mother Workbook

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If you want to:

  • identify what needs to come off your plate NOW

  • map (and start to magnetize) your ideal support system with one of my favorite exercises (SO YOU CAN SHIFT INTO TRULY THRIVING)

  • get instant insight on doing work and motherhood on your own terms 

  • take the next-level action steps you’ve been avoiding

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8 Habits of Highly Successful Women

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Although the feelings that create success are as diverse as our fingerprints, I believe that examining the habits of fulfilled women can motivate and inspire us. Most women who rock-it-out on the daily claim that feelings such as satisfaction, joy, contentment, connection, and love are what creates success in their lives. What are the top 8 habits of women who embody success?

1. Successful women are highly tuned into their bodies. Not only are these women able to listen to their bodies, they also have the ability to respond with love and self-care. They use the messages of their bodies as a direct form of guidance. Author and speaker Kate Northrup suggests when making financial decisions, women feel into their bodies (the hips specifically) to make the right choices the first time around.

2. Successful women prefer collaboration to competition. They cultivate sisterhood. They recognize the importance of authentic connection. They love it, cherish it, and are renewed by it. Successful women know that it’s not about stepping on others to get to the top. They know there is enough for everyone and they’d rather delight in the decadence together.

3. Successful women are raw. They are authentic and true to their heart. They are not afraid to be seen and heard for who they really are. They recognize that they are unique and that there is no one else to be except their true and awesome self.

4. Successful women know how to be still and receive. They accept gifts, compliments, and money with ease. They can open up to the practice of ‘non-doing’ and quiet the urge to engage in (often) fruitless action. Outward action is necessary, but the opposite energy of receiving is equally important.

5. Successful women are persistent. They carry their aspirations for the long run.  They can see through the challenges and overcome the obstacles. They know that everyday habits, though small in the moment, ultimately create the substance of their lives. These women are strong and press on despite all odds.

6. Successful women practice gratitude. These women align their perspective with a life of fullness and abundance. They recognize that life is a precious gift and seek new reasons to feel appreciation.

7. Successful women have faith. They have faith in the process of life. They have faith in themselves and in unseen forces that guide them into embodying their highest potential.

8. Successful women laugh a lot. They don’t take it too seriously. They love all the side-splitting-cheek-burning laughter they can get. All of their ambition, passion, and goals aside they see that the journey is filled with more joy when they lighten themselves (and others) with outbursts of contagious laughter.

 


WANT MORE?

Go From Overwhelmed to On-Point with Your Purpose Work with the Deeply Supported Mother Workbook

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If you want to:

  • identify what needs to come off your plate NOW

  • map (and start to magnetize) your ideal support system with one of my favorite exercises (SO YOU CAN SHIFT INTO TRULY THRIVING)

  • get instant insight on doing work and motherhood on your own terms 

  • take the next-level action steps you’ve been avoiding

Then, this is for you. Download it below for instant access.