Ever walk into a room where people are DEEPLY bonding over their conditions/ailments/pains?
The conversation bounces around the room as everyone talks about their ailments and struggles — while you (a fairly self-aware person) ask yourself: what IS going on here? Does anyone here actually want different results? Do they want to know that it CAN change?
Even if it’s UNSAID, the vibe is like this: life is not working for me. Because of X, I can’t do/be/have Y.
I’ve been in plenty of those rooms, and I’ve learned to either:
a) compassionately and intuitively challenge the pain-party
b) leave the room
Side thought: I’m NOT victim shaming. It’s important that those who’re struggling have a safe place to relate, share their story, and process emotions without judgement/criticism/being blamed for the challenging things that have occurred in their lives…
The problem is NOT needing to work through pain/challenges/struggles. We all need that.
THE PROBLEM IS WHEN EVERYBODY IN THE ROOM PITCHES A TENT AND DECIDES TO STAY.
I see and feel this happening with other creatives and entrepreneurs — my PAST self included.
It looks/sounds like bonding over the sh*t they don’t like in the industry:
I don’t like how she markets.
I don’t like how she sells.
She’s ALWAYS selling.
Her prices are inflated.
Who would pay that?
Her emails are too frequent.
Her blah, blah, blah.
Look at what she’s wearing.
An animal died for that purse.
She’s launching AGAIN.
What I would like to ask all of the people saying (OR EVEN THINKING) any of the above, is this:
🔹IS YOUR BUSINESS WORKING FOR YOU?
🔹DO YOU KNOW THAT YOU CAN HAVE DIFFERENT RESULTS?
🔹DO YOU KNOW THAT IT CAN CHANGE — THAT YOU CAN GROW?
🔹ARE YOU AWARE THAT YOU’RE SEPARATING YOURSELF FROM THE RESULTS YOU WANT?
🔹WHEN ARE YOU GOING TO ALLOW YOURSELF TO BE ALL THAT YOU ARE?
🔹WHEN ARE YOU GOING TO LET GO OF THE ILLUSION OF SAFETY SO THAT YOU CAN SOAR?
Seriously. Think about it.
And if this is speaking to You, join me for my upcoming LIVE WORKSHOP: NEW STORY NOW.
This workshop is going to anchor you into:
The version of you who is unapologetic and unstoppable.
The version of you who takes up way more space.
The version of you who is safe being seen.
The version of you who is safe as she sells her offerings/services and grows her business/body of work with a TON more momentum, because she’s not…
Second guessing her every move.
Isn’t it about time to start trusting yourself more?
To choose the Soul nudges instead of the fear shackles?
For real: LET’S DO THIS TOGETHER.
New Story Now | Live Energy-Coaching Workshop Details:
When: March 29th at 6 p.m. EST
Where: on Zoom with me and other women who’re breaking free
Why: because it’s time to archive the limiting stories and do your important and sacred work in a way that feels GOOD and ALIGNED to YOU
Who: creatives, healers, mentors, and entrepreneurial types who’re ready to uncover their own limiting stories and set better foundations NOW
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